What's with all of you and Mudsex?

[a strange shadow]

Oh, a practice I really like for when my characters are in a "serious" regular relationship is to just do a quick OOC with the other player to see if it's acceptable to assume that a lot of the day-to-day, relationship-maintaining boning happens off screen. This is especially useful for when I have a PC that actually needs to Get Shit Done.

A thousand times this.

[Feco]

I'd like to add the situation I posted about earlier clearly violated rules of consent.

I think the rules in place work nicely and I doubt anyone is asking to expand them, or for you to ask consent for things not covered by the rules.

[Cindy42]

I really, really want to kank this one person Ig and they want the same thing. I'm quakerish so I feel weird about it, even though there's still no way i'm saying yes.

Let's kill this thread and make one about the positive, nonlegal aspects of mudsex please.

[valeria]

Why not just 'derail' this topic?  It's not like there was a whole lot of topic to derail in the OP 

[Kismetic]

Let's kill this thread and make one about the positive, nonlegal aspects of mudsex please.

Just keep it to this thread.  My massive derail is over.

[a strange shadow]

Massive derail. Snicker, snicker.

</derail>

[Bogre]

I don't do it, personally.

I do think relationships are interesting part of the gameworld, that said, I tend to stay out of those, too.

I don't have a problem with people doing it, but I think if that's their goal with the game, its not great. Sometimes you can just tell the PCs who are here for sex.

[Potaje]

Are we speaking about mudsex still.. well if there was anyone that knows about sex and murder its....



But I like to say "No", know the no.. just call me "Dr. No"

[Cindy42]

Are we speaking about mudsex still.. well if there was anyone that knows about sex and murder its....



But I like to say "No", know the no.. just call me "Dr. No"

Someone needs to create a James Bond character. Perhaps a lesbian one. Assassin/thug, or whatever, hired to make mantis heads appear on computer screens. Mudsexes like crazy, without singular commitment, and carries a couple of neat gadgets around, and uses a fake name.

[boog]

Damn. I can get mudsex done in less than 10 minutes. WTF are you people doing?!?!

[Ocotillo]

Ah, so you've been playing in Allanak.

[Semper]

Ah, so you've been playing in Allanak.

It helps when you don't have to worry about being so subtle doing it. 

couldn't help it

[boog]

I've done 10 minutes in Tuluk. Swear it.

[Malifaxis]

I've done 10 minutes in Tuluk. Swear it.

Yes you did.

[SMuz]

Someone needs to create a James Bond character. Perhaps a lesbian one. Assassin/thug, or whatever, hired to make mantis heads appear on computer screens. Mudsexes like crazy, without singular commitment, and carries a couple of neat gadgets around, and uses a fake name.

Eh, it's been done a lot. My sneaky types are often 'thug', 'rebel/raider', 'hobo', 'assassin geisha/james bond'.

[Dakota]

But it does amuse me that we're way more concerned with the sexual content near-adults might see, and way less worried about the violent content.  It always does.

This always has me scratching my head, each time these tpics crop up.

And i'm sorry, i'm not going ask for consent each time my character says "fuck", or send in a player complaint because someone emoted staring at my character's boobies without asking OOC first!

If you're likely to get offended by things not covered in the consent rule, you have to ask yourself what you're doing playing a game that clearly states it's adult, violent, and where sexual promiscuity is the norm.  

Edit for better clarity.

This + most the players are american (not trying to pick a fight or derail but certain things are more sensitive there than in other places - and vice versa). I've great ftb's and am not too prude or pretentious to say I've had a handful of scenes where we didn't ftb totally driven by character and RP.

Frankly I think ppl make way too much a big deal in this. It it works for you and your character (and have the time), then do it. If not, don't. They're consent rules and we know how that works. It's as simple as that.

[Saellyn]

Yo, guys: I respect you all, and I'mma let you finish, but MeTekillot has the greatest mudsex log of all time. OF ALL TIME!

[Samoa]

Yo, guys: I respect you all, and I'mma let you finish, but MeTekillot has the greatest mudsex log of all time. OF ALL TIME!

I dunno. I used the word 'spiderwebbing' once. That was pretty good.

[Shepard]

I started playing this game when I was fourteen years old, but that's cool because in Ontario, Canada the age of consent is fourteen - so no harm done!

[Saellyn]

I started playing this game when I was fourteen years old, but that's cool because in Ontario, Canada the age of consent is fourteen - so no harm done!

<.< And in the U.S., I still get in trouble for it with you.

[BleakOne]

Let's not get back to that issue, please.

[Kismetic]

Let's not get back to that issue, please.

*starts to reach for his soapbox, and then sighs, shaking his head*

[MeTekillot]

Yo, guys: I respect you all, and I'mma let you finish, but MeTekillot has the greatest mudsex log of all time. OF ALL TIME!

I dunno. I used the word 'spiderwebbing' once. That was pretty good.

I make use of the words 'lewd claps', 'gangly', 'missing', 'abrupt' and 'flushing' a lot.

[Is Friday]

I'm so disturbed.

[MeTekillot]

face flushing with embarassment, rather