While this is nice, where is it to be held? Not everyone is in the know and will it be moderated so there are no secrets being exchanged?
Shal's house is in New Jersey, basically on the beach.
As far as no secrets goes, we mostly get drunk, get nostalgic about past characters, play tabletop and board games, and swim in her pool.
Oh, and eat way too much and get fat. I think I gained 8 lbs in Barz's pies last time.