I am, but don't, generally.
She is the type to have no problems dragging my ass to weddings or family events (because she has a huge family) but when I have something -I- want to go to, I can feel her disappointment and boredom as she trails behind me.
At Disney, I tried to reference her and engage her a half dozen times, but she's not good with new people (Masters in Therapy, hard time talking to new people...)
Also, and I can't stress this enough, we can't afford to live with student loans right now, so any promises six months from now are laughable. ($700 just to Navient, because "all your credit scores say you're in good standing so clearly you can afford that monthly hit, out of nowhere)