I make guys and only mention their eyes if they are remarkable. If I plan on wearing things that will obscure the eyes I just don't mention them at all.
There. That's my rant. Yup. That's about as ranty as I get. But I think it proves my point. There are some things that should always be mentioned. I think eyes are one of them. I think tits are one of them. Asses I don't think need to be mentioned.
But I think it's only fair to ask females what they notice on every guy they talk too. Yes, I notice every girl's tits who I talk to. It's not even a conscious thing. It's in the same league as me noticing their height, weight, hair-length, eyes, noses and complexion. I can't recall them, but I notice them subconsciously every time.
Well, its been said before but package size is always a good way for male descs to go. Women do a three point check:
1 - Build
2 - Package
3 - Wallet
Those guys who can't get the package part of their desc right can add to it with bulging sacks of sid.
Just looks.. First things are:
Build
Eyes
And I guess facial structure.
I think women are first and foremost attracted to that basic "tarzan" chiseled out look. But within 2 minutes at least for me anyway. It's:
Personality
Intelligence
Confidence
Wallet
I put wallet down only because I am far too old to be taking care of someone else, you need to at least be self sufficient. Plus I think it falls under the whole manly, man type thing.. There is something very -unattractive- about a man that can't take care of himself. But for me unless you are deformed, looks play a very small role.
I'm not gonna even front:
If I'm playing a smart character:
Well written description
Wallet
Reputation/job
Controllability
If I'm playing a stupi... ummm nice character:
Well written description
Love
Find out IRL :twisted:
For me in real life, it's...
1. Eyes
2. Lips
3. Ass
I rarely check out a guy's package until I start considering having sex with him ;) which is not in the first five minutes I meet him.
and then after meeting them...
4. Intelligence
5. Sense of humor
6. General "got-it-together"ness
A fat wallet is not necessary, but the lack of any wallet at all, like the lack of opposable thumbs, is both noticeable and undesirable. If I wanted a financially dependent male I could go get knocked up.
For my characters in Arm, it's...
1. What's in it for me
:P
1. Eyes
2. Hair
3. Build
Granted, some women will say looks don't matter but that isn't always true. The majority of women want a man that they will be physically attracted to. I disagree with the stereotype of all women wanting big strong chiseled men. There are so many different types of women in the world, and they all have somewhat different tastes to some extent.
There are, however, special cases where a woman will meet a man, and not find him attractive until after she gets to know him. Yeah, I know you can't talk about personality in descs, but it does happen this way sometimes.
First impression:
1. Eyes.
2. Build.
3. 'Tude.
Quote from: "Cuusardo"Granted, some women will say looks don't matter but that isn't always true. The majority of women want a man that they will be physically attracted to. I disagree with the stereotype of all women wanting big strong chiseled men. There are so many different types of women in the world, and they all have somewhat different tastes to some extent.
There are, however, special cases where a woman will meet a man, and not find him attractive until after she gets to know him. Yeah, I know you can't talk about personality in descs, but it does happen this way sometimes.
Thank you for making my post for me.
1. Eyes.
2. Hands (yes, hands.)
3. Build (I actually don't like big buff muscleheads, but let's not get into particulars, here.)
Warning: Potentially Lewd Post.
Generally if the personality is good, then the looks don't matter as much. (Yay for TEH INTARWEB)
However, when scoping I like to look at:
Facial structure
Scruffiness
Hair
biceps
general build
ass
and occasionally, sense of style (or uniform).
Girls go crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man.
As far as the wigglepuppy dispenser, if it's -really- noticeable (which I've seen on a man wearing jeans and it's SCARY!) is when I'll look. Otherwise, the size doesn't matter until my hand is on it.
And boys, once more: width is more important than length.
Quote from: "Delirium"2. Hands (yes, hands.)
Mmm, hands. Forgot about those. Arms can be rather nice too....and shoulders, and chests, and...
:twisted: Ok...getting a little distracted.
Quote from: "crymerci"Quote from: "Delirium"2. Hands (yes, hands.)
Mmm, hands. Forgot about those. Arms can be rather nice too....and shoulders, and chests, and...
:twisted: Ok...getting a little distracted.
Biceps! Biceps, biceps, biceps!
Rrow.
Lips
Their look (some people don't have a noticable look, but a lot of people do. Most of it is choice, how they wear their hair, what they chose to wear. I like when someone has a definite look, unless it's overly selfconscious. Like ruffled shirts and walking sticks. Yuck.)
Walk.
Hmm... sometimes I'm attracted to the pretty boy-type until I slap myself and come to my senses...hehe..
Mostly for me its the face
Ass.. Sooo nessary!
Thighs! OOooooh gots to have nice thighs :D
And the build.. Stand up straight! Let me see those shoulders!
Better have a job... I'm not supportin' anyone!
Hmm.. In game.
If she's a sweet sort of naive but hardened creature.. (they can be so complex)
Love.. and what skills he has that will help her further her goals :D
If I'm playing a different type..
What she can get. :D
The practical fembot looks for these things in a manbot:
1. Processing speed, disk storage and RAM. Artificial intelligence is extremely important on a significant unit for obvious reasons, unless you particularly enjoy long information access times, and is noticeable, usually, at a glance. If augmented by a modular humor-output card, this is even better.
2. A sturdy infra and outer structure that complies with the Fembot Desire and Compatability chipset. A long and wide powercord doesn't hurt either. His software should be soft, his firmware should be firm and his hardware should, indeed, be hard.
3. A well-apportioned currency access and storage facility with appropriate denominations of currency included is always important. Not just for minor upgrades and accessories, but because while the Love subroutine is important, the Love subroutine won't pay for necessary upgrades, housing units, accidental malfunctions to the infra and outer structures and small satellite units that are formed from leftover pieces of hardware and software should such occur.
How do you see a job just by looking at a guy?
Quote from: "Barzalene"How do you see a job just by looking at a guy?
By the size of his wallet of course!
look for wallet
look at face
look at hieght
look at hair
look at hands
That is how I organize them :)
Hehe...I've got all of this down...
I must be a sexy beast to all the ladies. :wink:
Quote from: "Trenidor"Hehe...I've got all of this down...
I must be a sexy beast to all the ladies. :wink:
Dude! You're not supposed to let them know anyone will be doing this. Of course, I was too, but now it's not worth it. Way to spread IG plans OOC, man.
Quote from: "Trenidor"Hehe...I've got all of this down...
I must be a sexy beast to all the ladies. :wink:
TrenidorJoined: 11 Jul 2003
Location: HomelessTake me. Take me now you big hunk of perfection. Yes. Yes. Right there on your cardboard bed. Take me!
Quote from: "spawnloser"Quote from: "Trenidor"Hehe...I've got all of this down...
I must be a sexy beast to all the ladies. :wink:
Dude! You're not supposed to let them know anyone will be doing this. Of course, I was too, but now it's not worth it. Way to spread IG plans OOC, man.
In Game? Sheee....way to NOT aim high.
Quote from: "ShaLeah"Quote from: "Trenidor"Hehe...I've got all of this down...
I must be a sexy beast to all the ladies. :wink:
Trenidor
Joined: 11 Jul 2003
Location: Homeless
Take me. Take me now you big hunk of perfection. Yes. Yes. Right there on your cardboard bed. Take me!
Fine, make fun of my joke.
Trenidor
Joined: 11 Jul 2003
Location: St. George, Utah I'm my 5 bed 4 bath mansion
And that's still with tons of money in the bank from my last house over selling.
Quote from: "Trenidor"
Joined: 11 Jul 2003
Location: St. George, Utah I'm my 5 bed 4 bath mansion
Sorry, a good grasp of grammar and a rapier wit are far more important. ;p
If money were that important, I would always be single.. but... err.... I'm single at the moment *yuck*
I guess I give up... :(
I'll go back to my real life instead of checking the board to see what you can figure out I'm doing wrong; Though, it was fun while it lasted :wink:
My theory on this matter is that chicks don't care much about looks like they tend to believe they do. Sure they -do- want someone that looks good, but I'm sure they'll go for anyone that does'nt look liek a slob under the right circumstances.
Quote from: "Trenidor"I guess I give up... :(
I'll go back to my real life instead of checking the board to see what you can figure out I'm doing wrong; Though, it was fun while it lasted :wink:
Aww.. you need a hug? *hug* Everyone needs a hug sometime. *sage nod*
With every girl I've dated (and in one case, married...and divorced..ugh) it's always been my eyes first. That's always the first compliment I got was about my eyes. :) The second comment was the rear end. I guess it's nice, I don't spend alot of time looking back there to check myself. :roll:
But those are just personal experiences, and I'm sure every woman, as this thread has shown, has different tastes in what they look for. That's what makes it fun, because you can't please everyone, but at the same time, hopefully you can please the -right- one.
Clothes make the man.
Not totally, of course, but a ratty t-shirt with holes in it won't impress anyone. With a couple exceptions:
1) A guy can still look good in raggedy clothes if they are clearly work clothes, and he has obviously been working that day. Something with grease is good.
2) A beautiful man with artfully torn clothing can look hot.
Simply wearing the same raggedy t-shirt for 10 years "because it is comfortable" doesn't look good on anyone. That goes double for underwear.
Eyes and stuff are good too.
AC
How about vestigial tails, do the ladies like them?
Aim for what? I'm already married. I got what I was aiming for already.
Quote from: "spawnloser"Aim for what? I'm already married. I got what I was aiming for already.
What? You and Malifaxis got married and didn't tell anyone?!?
AC
Quote from: "Angela Christine"What? You and Malifaxis got married and didn't tell anyone?!?
Aw, acting all coy just for everyone else. Silly girl, don't be shy. Tell everyone of our love.
Self confidence is one of the most attractive qualities you can have, for either a man or woman.
I don't use a wallet.
I don't even OWN a wallet...except the Led Zeppelin wallet in my 'Memories Chest'.
My ID and emergency information goes in a tin cigarette case decorated with flashy-changy red flames on the cover (unless I decide to pack that with my cloves), or in my front pants pocket where it is safe...along with my nut of dead presidents.
I don't roll my nut with the Georgies on the inside and the Benjis on the outside like some wannabe pimp. I protect my Benjis with da Georgies on the outside. The less a woman (or anyone else) sees of my nut o' dead presidents, the better. What's important...or not...is if the tab gets paid.
How I dress is my bidness. If I wanna wear ratty jeans and a holey t-shirt, I'll fuckin' wear it. Then again, I've been known to escort my Lady to a club wearing a tuxedo.
I smoke. I drink. I engaged in premarital sex. In fact, sex is the most important element of a marriage, so I advise ANYONE to check out their potential mate before signing onto a contract of 'til death do we part'. I learned this the hard way. If sex isn't the most important element of marriage, we should each just marry our best friend. :twisted:
Quote from: "naatok"I don't use a wallet.
I don't even OWN a wallet...except the Led Zeppelin wallet in my 'Memories Chest'.
My ID and emergency information goes in a tin cigarette case decorated with flashy-changy red flames on the cover (unless I decide to pack that with my cloves), or in my front pants pocket where it is safe...along with my nut of dead presidents.
I don't roll my nut with the Georgies on the inside and the Benjis on the outside like some wannabe pimp. I protect my Benjis with da Georgies on the outside. The less a woman (or anyone else) sees of my nut o' dead presidents, the better. What's important...or not...is if the tab gets paid.
How I dress is my bidness. If I wanna wear ratty jeans and a holey t-shirt, I'll fuckin' wear it. Then again, I've been known to escort my Lady to a club wearing a tuxedo.
I smoke. I drink. I engaged in premarital sex. In fact, sex is the most important element of a marriage, so I advise ANYONE to check out their potential mate before signing onto a contract of 'til death do we part'. I learned this the hard way. If sex isn't the most important element of marriage, we should each just marry our best friend. :twisted:
*wild cheering*
Well said! I'm 100% the same in everything but the fact that I've only worn a tux once, trying it on before my dad got remarried. It made me feel slimy, so I took it off and sported khakis instead.
I have a girlfriend that many consider to be 'gorgeous'. I, on the other hand, have never been graced with a compliment on my looks. I'm big, muscly, and very intelligent, but you could say I was beaten severely with 'the stick'.
When I ask her how I snatched her, she simply replies,"
Your meat." Heh, kinda degrading but erotic all the same...